We often think of ourselves as the "parents" of our pet cats. We feed them, play with them, and even spoil them like our own babies.
But according to scientific research, cats actually see us in a very different way. They don’t view us as owners or parental figures. In fact, they see us as fellow cats—just much larger in size.
According to Dr. John Bradshaw, a British animal behaviorist who has studied cats for over 30 years, cats do not regard humans as a separate, superior species.
In his book Cat Sense, Bradshaw explains that cats treat humans the same way they treat other cats they like. Rubbing against us, meowing, grooming us with their tongues, and sleeping nearby are all forms of social communication commonly used between cats.
Cat Behavior: Natural Instincts, Not Drama
Why is that? Unlike dogs—which have been selectively bred for thousands of years to help humans hunt or guard property—cats were never domesticated for any specific purpose beyond their pleasant presence and appearance.
Even today, around 85% of the global cat population still breeds with feral cats. This means that, both genetically and behaviorally, cats remain very close to their wild ancestors.
So, what do their "weird" behaviors really mean? For example, when a cat kneads your stomach or lap, it’s actually a reflex from kittenhood—something they did while nursing from their mother. Or when they leave a dead mouse on your floor, it’s not because they’re trying to "feed" you.
Rather, they’re just looking for a safe place to enjoy their catch—before realizing that canned food from humans tastes way better!
Cats Can Love, But in Their Own Way
Although many people think cats are aloof and selfish, studies show otherwise. Research from Oregon State University’s Human-Animal Interaction (HAI) Lab found that cats actually prefer social interaction with humans over food or toys. In the experiment, most cats chose to spend time with the available human rather than with food or other objects.
Cats are also known for their ability to adapt to human habits. They can recognize which family members usually feed them and even manipulate us using specific vocalizations—like a mix of purring and whining—to get our attention.
That said, cats can also hold grudges. If they realize you're the source of their discomfort, they may avoid you for a long time. So, never spray them with water right in front of their face!
Silent Stress Can Harm Your Cat’s Health
Behind all their sweet behavior, there's a lesser-known issue: stress in cats. Many pet cats live under constant pressure from having to share space with other cats they don’t get along with.
This stress can lead to a variety of health problems, ranging from fight-related injuries to bladder inflammation and skin disorders. The solution? Not medication right away—but rather understanding the social dynamics between the cats in your household.
